Have you ever been inlove? How often you say the word i love you?
I Love You..... this romantic words that always comes out in our mouth and a universal words can decieive us and can teach us now to live happy.
Love is difficult to define because, love is love itself. But let us try to give words that are synonymous to LOVE.....
Love is a matter of ACCEPTANCE and Love is a matter of CHOICE.
Acceptance and Love for me is synonymous to each other. When you love, you also accept fffor what he is inside and out. You may always hear when people say that " Love is blind". But actually they refer that word blind to acceptance.
Inspite of this shortcoming you still love the person that means, when you love him you accept all of his whole being. It's not love when just love him because of his physical structure or his attitude, its admiration.
Admiration and Love is a different word but when you love the person, you admire him but not all admiration is love. we can'y sometimes deny that one facotr or reason that we love him is his physical aspects, we mostly search for a BEAUTIFUL partner or HANDSOME partner. but we are not aware that looks can be deceiving. he may look so innocent and so gentle but when you dig deeper into his personality, you may notice that his not the guy you've been dreaming to spend your life with.
In this situation ACCEPTANCE comes in, if we found out that there is something wrong with him but inspite of this, you can love him though he is not perfect.
Always put in your mind that nobody's perfect, but let us try to be perfect for the one we love.....
LOVE is a matter of Choice. God gave us the freedom to choose, whether bad or good, not all of us chooses to be good because when you choose to be good its really hard. It's like when to follow God, its not that easy. Look at the 12 disciples, they choose to follow God. They chose to be holy before God. And now, look what happened. Stephen, one of the follower of God, he was stoned by the people because he was preached the Gospel. Though its so risky/ dangerous, still they choose to follow and love God because god is our creator and He gave His begotten son just to save us (John 3:16) GOD IS LOVE. God accept us though we are sinners and sometimes we don't want to follow Him. but His Love is infinite we can't phantom it. We choose to follow God because of His promise and His unfailing promise to us that if we chose to follow Him, we have this eternal life that He promised.
When you love well, its your choice and when were hurt it is also your choice to be hurt. you can't teach your heart to love him but if it is your choice to love him, yes you can but if not you can do so.
Life in this wolrd is a matter of choice. we can choose to be happy and other's not. You cannot blame others if they chose to be bad because they have their reason why they prefer to choose such things that makes their life miserable.
